The Bold and the Bashful

  In this entry I'll talk about the advantages and disadvantages of being shy or Bold.

  I don't really see any advantage of being shy. However, there are a lot disadvantages. When you are shy you don't meet many people, you don't show your talents or skills, because of this you can lose the chance of getting good jobs or scholarships.

  On the other hand, when you're bold you can easily show off, what helps you to get good jobs, scholarships and meet a lot of interesting people.

  When comparing this two personalities I do not want to point out that being shy is bad, I believe bashful people should try to let the shyness aside to live freely though. However, as I refer to before being shy is nothing to feel bad  or ashamed about.

Some tips to overcome shyness, based on Wiki How, are:

  • Think about the root of your shyness. 
  • Accept your shyness. One of the first steps to overcome your shyness is try to accept your shyness and be comfortable with it. 
  • Figure out your triggers. Do you become shy in front of new audiences? When learning a new skill? Try to pinpoint the thoughts that go through your head right before the shyness hits.
  • Make a list of situations that make you feel anxious. 
  • Conquer the list. Once you have a list of 10-15 stressful situations, start working through them, one-by-one 




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